Jan 28 2009
Lollita
Last two nights I was drinkin’ IceThee only. I figured out, well, maybe I get my normal life back. Maybe my stories become less extraordinary.
But nothing has changed.
An older lady I often see in the pubs and gladly speak with, said she’d like to go and travel with me.
I asked her why, and she said because she likes me very much.
I said I like her too and would love to take her with me, if she was only 20 years younger, or me otherwise 20 years older.
She said she understood that, but she still likes the idea.
Last night she said she’d buy a tent and follow my footsteps.. no matter where I go!
She’d also buy a big bag potatoes and dragg it with her. That she said too.
Probably just in case I get hungry underway. ;-)
Which makes me wonder: why do ladies suddenly become sincere when they get old?
Why are their shields gone? Where did it go? And why do they at sudden, shamelessly prefer to speak the truth?
What happens to her fear, when she says (what she thinks)… something as simple as: I LIKE YOU?!
And what does it do to me?
Lollita girl
Model: Diana (www.modelmayhem.com/723599) featuring Lollita.
Photo made by: Arnie (www.vanderwal-fotografie.nl)
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| Model Diana, “Lollita” by: photographer Arnie. |
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| Christa and Jeroen, by: photographer Jan-Paul van der Meij (www.j-p.nl). |





January 28th, 2009 at 12:38 pm
Nice shoot, again it was great working with you.
Older women can become more ‘to the point’ when they start to realize their time is limited.
January 28th, 2009 at 2:03 pm
Hey Alex,
Who’s that girl with the lolly-pop?
Oh it’s me … hihi :-)
Als ingrediƫnten neem je een goede fotograaf en een goede visagist, dan krijg je dit als resultaat, prachtig!!!
-x- Diana
January 28th, 2009 at 2:20 pm
@JP, I also think that older ladies are more ‘to the point’ because they already have their kids, their home, security? and all.. so they’re finally willing to take a risk and throw themselfs into unknown. In a fact, nothing left to lose… Either that risk further means - being happy - or not, life is fu*kin’ short for the new series of ‘hard to get’ play.. They do realize thatone!
And thats when the most ladies are finally willing to FOLLOW the dance, without bit*hin’ on anything.
Well, hmmmm, anywayz… we’re probably telling the same. :)
@Diana, I still wonder who’s that umbrella-girl, at right bellow corner of the screen. :-?