Psychology

In theory, when we think positive, have positive thoughts and attitude, we attract positive things, events and people. Hanging around successful people, should (again, in theory) help us become successful too. That’s one of the laws of attraction, that can lead to a success. The key is continue reading ...

Why is it so hard to deal with an angry woman? Why (we men) are doing it well with angry women, when we treat them as children? And why do we lose the fight when they succeed to get blood under our nails? In my perception, women are ALWAYS seeking for buttons. All of them, no exceptions. In (the continue reading ...

A-J and me walked from our barfly-bar. It was one ‘o clock after midnight. Everything went closed. A-J walked with me so I could take my bike. We were on a “Breestraat”, when an unknown guy came to us: J: Hi, may I ask you something? (In Dutch) A-J/Me: Yes, go ahead. J: Do you have continue reading ...

Yesterday I received a text message which said: “People I know visit your site and say he’s sick in his head megalomaniac they say youre a psycho…” Nice. And here is the message to those people from: Megalomanic psycho Do you guys have any idea how does it feel having a continue reading ...

What does psychotic mean? They say it’s loss of your reality… and what does reality then mean? Are we all psychotic? Like you’re normal, I’m weird, he’s depressive, she’s borderline… Which motherfu*ker decides that? Do we live in any reality at all? Is my reality the same as continue reading ...

It was Saturday night, about 1.15 after midnight when we returned from Heemskerk where we had a fun with a couple of friends of mine who invited us over there, where they had some cool live music. So we now entered our last bar, just before the door got closed for the rest of the outside world. continue reading ...

With a several things on my mind, I entered the pub as I’d do it any other day - this time alone. She was standing there, talking at the bar with a tall guy. To judge on the way she leaned towards him, he was most probably her boyfriend. Or they were even married. They certainly had some kind continue reading ...

Ambition is the last refuge of the failure. – Oscar Wilde – Big Girl and I stood outside, in pub’s garden, smoking a sigarette and having a drink together. It was late friday night and the place was crowdy, with here and there also a few drunk guys moving around. While Big Girl continue reading ...

Alright, my bookkeeping nightmare is now over, the first half of the year though. It was run against the clock. As all things I hate to do – BUT I MUST DO – I somehow do at the last moment, and my bookkeeping, is one of the worst jobs for me, ever! Fortunately I’ve got a good bookkeeper, continue reading ...

Radio interview and other night tales … Being natural is simply a pose. – Oscar Wilde – Last night I was sitting in the pub’s garden, having an easy chat with some of the guys I often see and have a talk with. There was subliminal tale going on behind their back at the big continue reading ...